Resham & Arjun’s journey from a long-distance relationship to the altar is a tale of love, coordination, and surprises. Their proposal story is straight out of a fairy tale. The extensive planning by Arjun, involving Resham’s family, friends, and even her boss, culminated in a magical moment at The Wharf, disguised as a cousin’s sweet 16 birthday party. Resham’s walk up the pier, with red balloons and flowers creating a dreamlike ambiance, led her to Arjun, a proposal that turned her dreams into reality.
Selecting the bridal attire is a crucial aspect of South Asian weddings. Resham’s choice was a testament to her elegant taste. She chose a Rimple & Harpreet design, a perfect amalgamation of traditional and modern styles. The bridal lengha, adorned with red and pink hues and peacock designs, was not just a dress but a symbol of regal elegance, evoking tears of joy from her mother.
The planning process, often daunting, turned into a delightful experience for Resham. The joy for her lay not in the planning itself but in witnessing the realization of her dreams and visions. The vendors’ kindness and thoughtfulness, along with the overwhelming love from guests from over 15 cities, made the events a perfect execution of her aspirations.
Halfway down, she danced to ‘Sau Aasmaan,’ a moment dedicated solely to her and Arjun, symbolizing the beginning of their new journey together. Resham shared special moments with each family member, creating unforgettable memories. Her entrance with her brother on a rickshaw during the Sangeet, the father-daughter dance, and wearing her mother’s Sangeet outfit and jewelry were poignant tributes to her family’s love and support.
Each element was infused with personal significance, from the meticulously chosen bridal lengha to the joyful Sangeet entrance. Resham’s decision to honor her family’s legacy, from her mother’s jewelry to her dance for Arjun, added depth and emotion to the festivities. The thoughtful inclusion of family in every aspect of the wedding festivities honored their past and set a foundation for their future together.
Resham & Arjun’s wedding story is a beautiful reminder of the power of love to cross distances, the importance of family in our lives, and the joy that comes from bringing together tradition and personal touches. Their celebration was more than just a series of events; it was a vivid tapestry of love, culture, and family, beautifully woven to mark the beginning of their new life.
Congratulations Resham & Arjun!
Share the scoop on your Proposal Story!We spent about 6 months in a long-distance relationship, flying back and forth between the East Coast and the West Coast. Little did I know that while we were always coordinating when to see each other next, Arjun had decided in February 2022 that he wanted to pop the question! Apparently he spent coordinating plans with my parents, brother, and close friends (even my boss at the time was in on it!), and also ensuring that his own family flew in from India for the moment too. While I thought I was going to The Wharf for my cousin’s sweet 16 birthday party, I was actually heading to my own proposal. As I walked up the pier, I realized what was happening as I saw the red balloons, flowers, and everyone gathered around, but all I could feel was giddiness and happiness on the inside as I walked towards Arjun. He took my dream proposal and turned it into the real one: the decor, the location, the people.. It was truly such a perfect moment.
How did you select your bridal lengha or wedding dress? Did you have a favorite color in mind?I have always admired Rimple & Harpreet’s designs as I feel they are the perfect balance of elegance, tradition, and modernity. So when the time came to plan my own outfits, I always dreamed of wearing a design of theirs. I tried on about 3 different lenghas at the boutique in Delhi; but I knew this was the one the moment I wore it. Not only was it the only one that made my mom tear up when I wore it, but it was also the perfect balance of the traditional and modern look I was hoping for. It had a balance of red and pink hues, and it also incorporated peacocks into the design giving such a regal feel when worn.
What was the most enjoyable part of the planning process, and why?For me, the best part of the planning wasn’t the planning process itself, but it was watching all my dreams and visions come to life during the events. The vendors that came together to put this weekend into action were so kind and so thoughtful through it all, and I appreciate the effort they put in to make sure the execution was nothing less of perfection.I also remember feeling so overwhelmed with love as I looked around at all the people who had come together from over 15 different cities around the world to celebrate our love and union.
Was there a really special moment in your wedding that constantly replays in your mind?For me, the entire wedding flew by in a second. Some moments from the wedding felt so surreal as if I had lived them in a dream. But, there is one moment I remember so clearly, and I think I will remember that moment forever. I knew when I walked down the aisle I wanted to honor my relationship with my father, but also give a moment to cherish my husband to be and the journey I was about to embark on with him. Only my parents, my wedding planner, and the photographer knew about the surprise I had planned for my husband. I walked halfway down the aisle with my dad, and then as I walked down the second half towards the mandap, I danced to Sau Aasmaan for my husband. In that moment, nothing else mattered, and it really truly was just me, him, and our love,
Anything else you want to tell us? We’d love to hear all about your other details! (jewelry, mehndi, venue, cake, bouquets, etc.)To me, my wedding was truly about cherishing and showcasing the bond I have with my parents and younger brother, as well as honoring the bond that I was building with my husband. I made it a point to have one special moment with each of them throughout the weekend. My Sangeet entrance was with my brother; he drove me into the ballroom on a rickshaw as everyone cheered us on. I was able to walk down the aisle with my father and also do a father daughter dance with him at the reception. For my husband, I danced down the aisle for him and also performed a solo performance to emote my feelings of love for him. To cherish my bond with my mom, I took the outfit and jewelry she wore to her own Sangeet and wore them all to my own Sangeet 25 years later.
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